Olayiwola Matthew
Afrobeats star Tiwa Savage has dismissed viral claims that she deliberately released her s3x video to stay relevant in the entertainment industry, clarifying that it was circulated as part of a bet from her ex-partner’s side.
Speaking in an interview on The Breakfast Club, Savage described the incident as one of the most painful experiences of her life, lamenting the emotional toll it took on her.
The video’s rapid spread on social media sparked controversy and criticism, with many blaming her for not giving in to her blackmailer’s demands.
She, however, expressed frustration over the lack of empathy shown to her, noting that rather than being recognized as a victim of extortion, she was harshly judged by both the public and influential media figures.
Savage emphasised that the narrative painting her as someone seeking attention was misguided, pointing out the absurdity of the accusations.
“I was bashed for my s3x video. Lot of people think I was just trying to get sympathy. Even people with platforms were quite horrible and blamed me.
“I don’t know how they couldn’t see me as the victim in this. They said I did it to be relevant. If I were doing that, I would’ve been intentional about it. I would have used better lighting, lingerie, and my facial expressions would have been on point.
“My mom called me and said, ‘don’t listen to them… I’m just happy that you’re enjoying yourself.’ Hearing my mom say that helped,” Savage added.
The singer also revealed she has been turning to therapy and has shifted how she views love and intimacy.
“For therapy, yeah, a lot of people say to me you’re wasting your money. I’m like, what? I love my son, I love my team, my friends. I’ve been married before, I’m 45, I’m good,” she said.
In her personal life, Savage admitted she has gone years without intimacy and doesn’t chase it outside of meaningful connections.
“I don’t know if I don’t come attached. I’ve gone like maybe three years without. I have to be with someone for me to even think about it. I don’t have toys… maybe that’s what people should get me for Christmas,” she joked.